Episode 46

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8th Sep 2025

Reclaiming Identity After Postpartum Survival Mode

In this vulnerable and empowering episode of Survival Mode Disrupted, Ali shares her honest journey through postpartum depression, identity loss, and the slow climb out of survival mode. From breaking down over spilled soup to rebuilding her life through creativity and purpose, this conversation is a lifeline for any woman feeling lost in the roles she plays.

  • šŸ¼ The silent reality of postpartum depression
  • 🧠 Why survival mode feels safer than connection
  • 🫄 Identity loss: ā€œI couldn’t answer what made me happy.ā€
  • 🧹 The emotional toll of doing everything for everyone
  • šŸ’” The moment creativity sparked her healing
  • šŸ§˜šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø Boundaries, self-prioritization, and the guilt of putting yourself first
  • šŸ’¼ How her business became the vehicle to reclaim purpose

šŸŽ™ļø What We Talk About:

  • Why postpartum isn’t always obvious (until it is)
  • The invisible weight mothers carry and why silence feels easier
  • The fear of admitting you feel disconnected from your baby
  • Rebuilding your identity beyond ā€œmomā€ and ā€œwifeā€
  • The turning point between floating and finally living
  • How purpose and creativity catalyze healing
  • The guilt—and necessity—of putting your needs first


šŸ”‘ Key Takeaways:

ā€œYou can love your family and still feel lost inside your own skin.ā€
ā€œSurvival mode isn’t living. It’s enduring.ā€
ā€œIt’s okay to eat lunch first. Your needs matter too.ā€
ā€œYour spark is still in there. Find it, and everything changes.ā€


šŸ™Œ Why This Episode Matters:

Motherhood is sacred—but it can also be suffocating when identity, rest, and joy are nowhere in sight. Ali’s story reminds us that even in the chaos, there’s a path back to self. And it starts with a simple, brave question: What makes me come alive?


If you’ve ever felt unseen inside your own life, this conversation will feel like a mirror and a lifeline.


šŸ’¬ Connect with Ali:


šŸ”— Resources & Links:




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About the Podcast

Survival Mode Disrupted with Leticia R Francis
Disrupted Unapologetic Conversations about Survival Mode
Survival Mode Disrupted is not just a podcast. It's a rebellion.

A raw, unfiltered space where we finally stop pretending we're fine and start telling the truth—the truth about the trauma we've carried, the identities they had to wear to survive, and the radical decisions we made to break free.

Because here's the deal: survival mode isn’t just a season. It’s a damn identity. One that so many were forced to adopt just to get through life, to stay safe, to stay needed, to stay sane. But eventually, it starts costing you more than it protects. Your peace. Your purpose. Your power.

This podcast is for the disruptors—the people who were told to stay small, stay silent, stay grateful for crumbs… and said ā€œhell no.ā€

Hosted by Leticia, The Survival Mode Disruptor herself—a trauma recovery mentor, speaker, and woman who has lived through the fires of abuse, betrayal, and breakdown and still chose to rise—this show dives deep into the unapologetic exits from survival mode that no one talks about.

You’ll hear from women (and a few brave men) who walked away from toxic relationships, soul-sucking careers, generational dysfunction, religious trauma, cultural expectations, and the lies they were taught to believe about themselves. Not because it was easy—but because staying would’ve killed something sacred inside of them.

These are the stories of bold pivots, quiet courage, and messy but miraculous rebirths.

Each episode is a conversation—a disruption—meant to wake something up in you. Whether it’s a guest sharing the moment they chose themselves for the first time, or Leticia dropping a truth bomb that makes you question everything you’ve normalized, this podcast is here to shake the foundation of your survival mode identity and replace it with something truer. Something freer.

We’re not here for surface-level self-care tips or fake empowerment slogans.

We’re here to talk about what it really takes to:

Reclaim your voice after being silenced.

Reinvent yourself after being broken down.

Rewrite your story when everyone else wants you to stay the same.

Release the guilt of choosing YOU.

This is for those who are done performing. Done pleasing. Done pretending.

It’s for the ones ready to exit survival mode—not slowly, not quietly, but disruptively and unapologetically.

You won’t leave this podcast the same.
You’ll cry. You’ll rage. You’ll laugh.
You’ll see yourself in every story.
And more importantly, you’ll remember who the hell you are.

Welcome to Survival Mode Disrupted.
It’s not just a podcast.
It’s a movement.
And your exit begins here.

About your host

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Leticia Francis

I am not here to inspire you—I am here to activate you.

As a Survivor, Keynote Speaker, and Trauma Recovery Mentor, I know what it’s like to fight battles no one sees. I also know that breaking free is possible. My work is about disrupting survival mode, exposing trauma-driven success cycles, and giving women the blueprint to reclaim their lives.

šŸ”¹ 200+ podcast features & speaking engagements
šŸ”¹ Global Women of Choice Award Winner 2022
šŸ”¹ Creator of the Survival Mode Exit Plan
šŸ”¹ Host of Survival Mode Disrupted Podcast